KNOWLEDGE SHEET BY SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR
POSTED ON: WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 10, 2018
How to deal with rude behavior
What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?
*Get upset
*React rudely back
*Get frustrated
*Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
*Blame the person
*Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
*It indicates the intensity of their commitment
*It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
*It projects the up-bringing of the person
*It indicates a behavioral pattern
*It shows lack of knowledge
*It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
*It shows you behavior to avoid
*It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
*It strengthens your mind
*It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
JAI GURUDEV!!!
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