Thursday, 20 June 2019

KNOWLEDGE SHEET BY SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR
POSTED ON: FRIDAY, JUNE 21, 2019

How to deal with rude behavior

What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?

Get upset
React rudely back
Get frustrated
Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
Blame the person
Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you.

Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:

It indicates the intensity of their commitment
It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
It projects the up-bringing of the person
It indicates a behavioral pattern
It shows lack of knowledge
It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
It shows you behavior to avoid
It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
It strengthens your mind
It unconditions the love that you are

The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.

|| Jai Guru Dev ||

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