KNOWLEDGE SHEET BY SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR
Posted on: Friday, September 13, 2024
How to deal with rude behavior
What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?
⚫Get upset
⚫React rudely back
⚫Get frustrated
⚫Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
⚫Blame the person
⚫Preach to the person
⚫None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
⚫It indicates the intensity of their commitment
⚫It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
⚫It projects the up-bringing of the person
⚫It indicates a behavioral pattern
⚫It shows lack of knowledge
⚫It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
⚫It shows you behavior to avoid
⚫It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
⚫It strengthens your mind
⚫It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
II Jai Gurudev II
http://knowledgesheetsbygurudev.blogspot.com/
Posted on: Friday, September 13, 2024
How to deal with rude behavior
What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?
⚫Get upset
⚫React rudely back
⚫Get frustrated
⚫Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
⚫Blame the person
⚫Preach to the person
⚫None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
⚫It indicates the intensity of their commitment
⚫It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
⚫It projects the up-bringing of the person
⚫It indicates a behavioral pattern
⚫It shows lack of knowledge
⚫It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
⚫It shows you behavior to avoid
⚫It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
⚫It strengthens your mind
⚫It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
II Jai Gurudev II
http://knowledgesheetsbygurudev.blogspot.com/
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