Just remember this, there is no human being devoid of goodness. Sometimes it gets buried under stress and ignorance. How would you like someone else telling you that you are selfish? Deep inside you do not think that you are selfish, but if someone else tells you that you are too selfish, or if they see negative tendencies in you, what do you tell them? ‘Hey look, I have good tendencies as well’. Don't you tell them that? There is no human being who is devoid of good tendencies and a good heart. - Sri Sri