Secrets of Relationship
If
in the relationship, both come from a sense of giving then there will
be no problem. But if both want to take, there will be fights for sure.
‘I am here to contribute, what I can do for you?’ - your relationship
will last longer with this attitude. Similarly, don’t be feverish about
a relationship, just relax and you will find your relationship with
people will improve and become better. If you are like a leech, clinging
on to somebody and bugging them, even though you say all nice words,
that person will run away from you because they can’t handle it. One
aspect is to give love, and another is to know how to handle love,
receive love as well. It needs only a centered, enlightened person. You
have to be very much at ease with yourself. If you are at ease with
yourself, everyone will be at ease with you. Just be yourself. Be
natural and simple. Relationships develop naturally. If you try to build
a relationship that is when you become a little artificial and
unnatural. You like someone to be very honest, open, natural,
unassuming with you. That is exactly what others also want from you. If
you are a boss, what type of assistants or subordinates would you like?
Someone who is open. And that is also what your boss wants. Don’t try
hard to impress your boss, or impress your girlfriend or boyfriend. That
is when everything goes wrong. The best is to be yourself, natural, to
be forgiving and to be in the present moment. It makes a big
difference. || Jai Guru Dev ||
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